I have lived in that Special Hell for so long that I've got my own room. Friends drop by. But for Mal? *snerk*

As for the icon, a very good friend (who does not like Firefly, oddly enough) made that to my specs. Love that man's smile. She made me another...god I can't even believe I'm admitting this...that is of me and Mal. He's looking down from the corner; I look like I'm asleep...and across the middle it reads "muse". It is THE PERFECT icon for me. But this one is a close second. I'll tell her you liked it.